When it comes to married life we cannot sure that it is always a good time. At first we are in our honeymoon stage, full of happiness with love always all around. Most marriages last the honeymoon stage for only a year, and when the baby comes it is more focused on the baby. Sometimes romance is forgotten or out of the picture. Other marriages last their honeymoon stage until they are in their primes or even till death. Well I hope I will experience that when I get there.
I really get envious whenever I see couples holding hands and feeling sweet eventhough the color of their hair is already gray and their skin reveals that they are not that young anymore. I feel that they really meant to each other "till death do they part". And perhaps the key to this success is acceptance. Yes, for me the key is acceptance, because if you don't accept the person that you choose to be with you then why bother spending the rest of your lives together.
Marriage will fail or will have problems. We cannot say that there is a perfect marriage. I myself try to have one but still there are some differences between two people. I also experience fighting with my husband because sometimes he comes home late. And sometimes he talks to his friends when he is at home instead of talking with me. Well I guess that's the way he is. Perhaps this is life and that all I have to do is to accept him, because I cannot say I also do things right all the time. I know I also have my share of mistakes.
And because we have already grown accustomed to each other, we already know each others so well. For 15 years I already know his tantrums and the same for him with regards to knowing when i get angry. To keep the romance on fire even when we are too busy from the many things we do not take each others for granted.
I discovered that maybe we did the right thing for us to be able to like each other still as time goes by. I joke with him and he does the same and we laugh together just like yesteryears. We never forget to talk to each in bed on what happened the whole day. We ssk questions and for each other's opinion like what can he say about my new hairdo, etc; anything that makes us feel light. I compliment him and more often I tell him how good looking he is. And he always tells me that I am sexy.
We never forget to kiss. And sometimes if we feel bored we make little fights but we still sleep embracing each other. Rewinding romance and reminiscing the time I started to like my husband is what I do every time we fight. I always put in mind how great a father he is to my children and how good a husband he is to me. Well I guess for so long that we have been together we know each other pretty well, we read each others mind and we have come to accept everything about us.
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