One of the major problems of being a mother is potty training. Even I have 2 older kids before I still have to undergo to another strategy for my youngest daughter. Hey this is one is the though. Because what works with my other 2 kids did not work to this one.
Having 3 kids is really something different attitude and are needed to learn in order you and your children can move without having struggle in what they do inside your home. Some kids are easily handle others are very dependent and some are very hard to do instruction.
I have read that 80% of toddlers are potty trained by the time they are 3 and half. It is a major achievement which assumes that he achieved bladder control, can understand bodily sensation, remove clothes on his own, and relax muscles voluntarily in order to eliminate the vowel.
When my youngest child is already 3 years old we still have some struggling in terms on vowel. She already has her poop before she will tell me. I ask her not to make poop without telling me but still the scenario go over and over. I buy a potty for her but she doesn't like to use it, I have to make her use diaper at that time just to make it sure she will not do mess on her panty or shorts. I ask my doctor on what other strategy to make this problem solve.
Potty training guide:
Don't bully - don't force you child to sit, actually this one of my problem I do forced to sit on her potty. Remind her that the potty is there to use whenever he feels like it. In other words, she is in charge.
Avoid associating the potty with shame. Don't refer to feces as something disgusting or stinky, because she feel the potty is bad.
Praise her- say good job whenever it is successful
Don't scold and punish you child. The more you nag the more she refuses potty. Yeah, I guess that is true because we ended up nothing happen.
Dress properly- wear clothes for the kids that can easily remove, such as pants or shorts with elastic waistbands, avoid something with zipper and long dresses.
Reduce fears - if your child doesn't want to use the potty, he may be afraid of something. Just determine what the problem is. Such as fear of something that coming up and will grab him, being sucked in the toilet, the water looks when it is swirling in the tank, the sounds of gushing water.
If the weathers warm, let you child wear just underwear. Your child will also be more aware of the sensation of being wet.
And lastly make a potty schedule- maybe because I am also a busy mom and I have lots of errand to finish I forget to make a potty schedule to my poor daughter. I don't do the entire potty advised of my doctor I only use some of it because others are already one of my strategy. And after 6 months my little darling is no longer my problem in terms of making her poop.
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